An ideal type of partner: The reflection of unfinished business

Photo by Tuur Tisseghem on Pexels.com Yesterday, I joined a webinar about communication in a relationship and I want to share a little part of it that successfully knock me down and makes me do a deep thought about it. Don’t pass the duty which should be done by yourself to your partner For some...

How to fight stigma?

Photo by Masha Raymers on Pexels.com Stigma is easily found in our social environment. People may call A group, a group of criminals, or B a disable person who can do nothing for life, or C as a crazy person and will be mad every time. Those kinds of stigmas can’t be separated from our...

He is all these things, and more that we will never see

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com These days I’ve been trying to re-read the Social Animal book by Elliot Aronson. On one page I found these words, He is all these things, and more that we will never see, and As observers, we frequently lose sight of the fact that each individual plays many social roles...

Let’s Watch Our Language

People think they can control their language (verbal language) all the time. There are words said like these, our mouth can lie but not with our eyes and body language. It seems like we can totally control and filter our language, but that’s not true. Sometimes, we told ourselves several times to watch our language...

Meaning of life is on everyone’s life

Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com This post should have been posted yesterday, but yeah maybe I was too lazy to make it yesterday. The topic was about the meaning of life. It was a serious topic and I have thought about it all day, but I couldn’t find any idea about it. So, I will...

Family as socialization agent

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com Family is defined as two or more persons related by birth, marriage, or adoption who reside together. Based on Berns (2013) there are certain family basic functions including reproduction, socialization/education, assignment of social roles, economic support, nurturance/emotional support. In this post, I’ll explore more about family function in nurturance. As...

Loneliness: Is it a gift or a curse?

Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com Loneliness is not a negative emotion or embarrassing experience. It’s normal for being lonely because loneliness makes you more like a human being. Sometimes, when you’re being lonely you could achieve deeper self-awareness, a time to be creative, and an opportunity to attain self-fulfillment and to explore the meaning of...

Quarter-life: Not a kid anymore nor an adult, but it’s just me

Photo by Ron Lach on Pexels.com I’m really not, but suddenly I become an adult.Past twenty, not yet thirty, in between, right there.When I am not a kid or an adult, when I am just meI shine brightestPalette (IU feat G-Dragon) Today’s topic is about a quarter of life. Palette is one of my favorite...

Sorry, It’s not about LOVE

Photo by Shamia Casiano on Pexels.com Can I say this? I hate the topic of love. Am I unloved? No, I am sure many people out there love me. Mmmm… I didn’t know what should I write about this topic. Previously I wanted to make this post as scientific as possible, but ewwwwrrr I was...

Sebulan Bersama Mereka (ODGJ)

Selama sebulan kemarin tepatnya selama 24 hari aku menjalani rutinitas mahasiswa tingkat akhir (re: magang). Awalnya kepengen magang di perusahaan, supaya bisa jauh-jauh dari psikologi klinis yang selama ini bukan passionku (alasan fiktif). Alasan  sesungguhnya nggak mau magang di bidang psikologi klinis adalah karena merasa nggak cocok jadi psikolog yang dianjurkan pandai berempati dan menjalin...

The Power of Conformity

Photo by Aaron Burden on Pexels.com Someone who sits with the good and bad people is like people who is being a friend with the owner of perfume and blacksmith. If you are being friends with the owner of the perfume you will get the perfume as a prize, buy the perfume or smell the...